If I have to stick with players from the server(from my approx 1 week of playing there), I'd say Kaasentra(heli) and then it's a split between 4 players for me in jet - polistesfuscatus, dduane, 5tarline and carbon. I know poli from WW and he's a very solid airplayer - I don't know exactly how good he is, though.
I don't see dduane getting high scores every time he has a jet, but he wins nearly all our 1v1s with his consistent playing, and he's a genuine pain in the ass.
I haven't seen 5tarline having a decent round yet, but when he gets his optimal playing conditions, I look forward to seeing what he can do. Cause if what he says is true, he has alot of potential.
I didn't know carbon until I started playing here. And he has been a great pain in the ass whenever he's in jet(kinda similar to dduane).
In general I can't pick 3 specific players that stands out. However, Rabbit.v2 is a great contestant for greatest jet player of all time, confirmed by many pro jet players, and he started playing bf2 again like 6 months ago or something like that. Either him or sirius are the best current jet players in the world, I'd say.
As of right now I'm probably amongst the top in regards to public heli players - but that doesn't say that much since we're not so many left, and playing public heli is considered a ride in the park compared to playing 2v2, which I've also been a part of.
As of inf players, my babe Kirste is the best sniper in bf2, ever. In my opinion, that is. Don't know that much about anyone else ;b